STYLISH READERS BY PEEPERS

Harlow (Blue Quartz)

There was a time in my life when my favorite fashion accessory was earrings. I wore what my friends and I hilariously referred to as “door knockers.” Does that tell you anything about the size of them? I suppose I’m lucky that my ear lobe didn’t just split in half. I also loved handbags a lot, although I will say that my budget for them was a lot lower than it is today, and I’d sport that one white “purse” all Spring and Summer long.

Boy, how times have changed. At the age of 48, my favorite fashion accessory is whatever pair of readers I’m wearing for the day. A friend and I once discussed that we felt as though we literally woke one morning and couldn’t read our phone without extending our arm and squinting. The first readers I owned were from an optometry office, and it took me hours to find a frame I liked and then cost me $200 (after insurance) once I found them. So imagine my joy when I discovered Peepers.

Coffee Shop (Tortoise)

Peepers Readers offer blue-light protection, in addition to magnification. For me, this helps tremendously with eye-strain and headaches. We all spend too much time on screens, so blue-light glasses should be a must for everyone, even without a prescription. But even more exciting is the style Peepers lenses add to my everyday life. Instead of being ashamed to wear readers or finding them a nuisance, I have a grand time choosing the best frame to complement the day’s outfit. And at a fraction of what I used to pay…most readers are under $30 (BEFORE an additional discount I’ll share)…I’ll take one of each! They’re lightweight, every pair comes with a canvas case, and Peepers now even has accessories like this chic gold chain so they’re always accessible. Shipping is free when you order over $42…and let’s be honest, we need more than one pair. Finally, if you want to see how Peepers will look on you before buying, you can use their Virtual Try-On — simply tap the banner at the top of this linked page and give access to your camera.

Use code JENNIFERMAUGUST to save 15% on your entire purchase. And to help with some inspiration, I’m sharing a few of my favorites in this post. But trust me, there are so many more beautiful styles. Beyond just readers, they also have progressive readers, polarized sunglasses, and even reading sunglasses. You’re welcome!

Center Stage (Gray Tortoise)

Center Stage (Black)

Showbiz (Purple Quartz)

Showbiz ( Tortoise/Green)

Showbiz (Sand Quartz/Yellow)

Showbiz (Blue Quartz)

To the Max (Pink Quartz)

Harlow (Blue Quartz)

Stardust (Gray Tortoise)

Stardust (Gray Tortoise)

Stardust (Tortoise)

Bellissima (Gray/Red)

Bengal (Black Marble)

To the Max (Tortoise)

Clark (Gray Tortoise)

Remember, use code JENNIFERMAUGUST to save 15% on your entire purchase. Happy reading!

xo,
Jennifer

HAMPTONS GUIDE 2022

A beachfront home in Southampton

Can you believe it’s just a few days away from the unofficial start of summer? I’m looking forward to one that’s relaxed, and I hope to share time with people I’ve missed over the past few years. Since the Christmas season, I’ve been to the Hamptons only twice, so I’m ready for a Hamptons summer. A lot of people know of the Hamptons from movies and television shows. And while there are wild and lavish parties to attend, that’s generally not my speed. So I try to publish a Hamptons Guide that most people can reference to enjoy their time. If you’re visiting for the first or second time, you may be wondering, is there a best of the Hamptons list? What spots should I be sure to hit to have the best summer in The Hamptons? Let’s first begin with a Hamptons 101 primer for anyone interested.

If you’re not from the New York area, you might be asking yourself, where are the Hamptons? The Hamptons are on the South Fork of the eastern end of Long Island, stretching from Westhampton out to Montauk and also north to Shelter Island. Summertime in the Hamptons is wonderful! And believe it or not, the Fall is one of the best times to visit because the weather is still beautiful but the seasonal crowds have departed! The beauty of the Hamptons is everything you read about. The beaches and landscape are stunning. Many of the homes and gardens are simply breathtaking and what dreams are made of. And while many of the rich and famous do, in fact, summer there, it is possible for anyone to enjoy the Hamptons. If you remember only one thing from this post it's that you should never attempt to hit all of the hot spots during one summer visit. Hamptons traffic from Memorial Day to Labor Day is absolutely horrible. After Southampton, Route 27, aka Montauk Highway, becomes one lane each way. And although it's only about 13 miles from Main Street in Southampton to Main Street in East Hampton, if you travel at the wrong time, that trip could easily cost you an hour. 

A morning walk on Little Plains Beach in Southampton

For that reason, a lot of my recommended top Hamptons spots are in or close to Southampton, but I’m doing my best to explore more of the entire East End. Fortunately for us, the main reason we chose to purchase a home in Southampton is because we love the town and beaches, so we don't feel like we're missing out by not traveling much farther east. There are SO many more wonderful places than what I’ve listed here. Since you simply can’t do it all during one visit, it’s my attempt to narrow it down for you.

HAMPTONS BEACHES & HAMPTONS BEACH PARKING

Cooper's Beach

The one slightly inconvenient thing about Hamptons beach parking if you're a day-tripper or even a weekender is that many (but not all) of the beaches require a resident permit. These have to be permanently affixed to the window of your vehicle. You obtain one only by owning a home or presenting a lease to the Town Hall or Village Hall, showing you're officially "living there" for an extended period of time.

But fear not, you can purchase a daily beach permit at some of the beaches. This link is extremely helpful for Southampton Town beach parking. A permit is required for all beaches on weekends beginning May 28 and EVERY day from June 25 through Labor Day. Before we were residents of Southampton, we always bought a daily pass for Cooper's Beach. That fee is $50 upon entering the lot. This gives you in and out privileges for the day. Cooper's Beach is beautiful, and it has clean bathrooms, showers, a beach "shack" (a nice one) with provisions (even lobster rolls and fish tacos), and the ability to rent chairs and umbrellas. Lifeguards are also present. To my knowledge, this is the only Southampton Village beach offering an option for non-residents.

In East Hampton Village beach monthly permits are available on a first come, first served basis. Click here to register and apply. At the time of this posting, daily parking in East Hampton is not available until further notice.

Scott Cameron/Flying Point Beach

If you have a parking pass, Flying Point beach, which connects to Scott Cameron Beach, is a wonderful place for children. You can access the ocean and the calmer bay from these beaches. When the bay water rises too high, the town of Southampton creates something called “The Cut.” They literally dig up the sand between the two bodies of water to allow water to flow from the bay to the ocean so the houses along the bay don’t flood. The water is about knee-high. It’s warmer and calm, so it’s less stressful than the ocean. Plus there are crabs in the bay, making for hours of entertainment for your kids (and you) if you bring along a crab net. Just make sure you release the crabs unharmed and do NOT take them home without a permit. The bay constables are watching, and they will fine you!

The creation of “The Cut”

HAMPTONS RESTAURANTS

There are several new Hamptons restaurants for 2022. A few of them are from well-known chefs, and they’ve decided to expand with a new branch or open a completely new concept. I’m happy to share those that I’m looking forward to trying, but know that I can’t yet vouch for them at the time of this posting. (I’ll do my best to update as the season goes on.) I’ve added so many restaurants over the years, so for this Hamptons Restaurant Guide 2022, I’ll try to group my favorite Hamptons restaurants by town.

SOUTHAMPTON

NEW IN 2022. One of my former favorite restaurants in Southampton was Red Bar. Sadly, it closed a few years ago, but this summer, Enchanté is opening in its old location. Heath Freeman, the guy behind Si Si in East Hampton, is creating a French bistro in the same spot at 210 Hampton Road. Check google for its opening in June, as there is no website at the time of this posting.

The rustic charm of Tutto in Southampton

Close to our home in Southampton Village is Tutto il Giorgno. It’s Italian food and a welcoming ambiance all wrapped into one. There is a beautiful and charming garden, which is my preference for seating. But don’t dismay if outdoor isn’t available because the inside is warm and cozy and has a wonderful energy to it. Favorite items on the menu are Grilled Octopus, Branzino, and I love the simplicity of the Spaghetti (with fresh tomato sauce) and Linguini with Clams (I always ask for extra garlic in both!) The restaurant takes limited advanced reservations on OpenTable, and each day at 11 am they open up their phone lines for same day reservations. Call as close to 11 am as you can, and keep pressing redial when you get a busy signal. They’re actually pretty good at trying to meet requests.

If you happen to be in Sag Harbor, there is a Tutto Il Giorgno there, as well.

AND NEW FOR 2022 is Tutto Caffe in East Hampton.

If you’re in the mood for a burger, head to Union Burger Bar for the best in town. They have veggie and turkey burgers, too, if you’re not feeling carnivorous. I LOVE their onion rings. And kids love the decadent milkshakes for dessert. Okay, maybe adults do, too! Need a spot for Happy Hour? Have it al fresco Monday through Friday from 3-6 pm here. Beers are $5, Wine is $7, and Mixed Drinks are $9.

Right next door to Union Burger is Union Sushi & Steak. They serve exactly what they promise in their name.

Shinnecock Lobster Factory for spectacular lobster rolls

If you think you have to go all the way to Maine (or Amagansett) for a fabulous lobster roll, think again. The Shinnecock Lobster Factory has you covered. Eat “in” at outdoor picnic tables or take it home. Either way, you’ll be transported to Maine with their quality rolls.

NEW for 2022 and so exciting for me is Lobster Roll Southampton (yes, the famous one in Amagansett) along Montauk Highway between Southampton and Water Mill.

Situated on Main Street with a back garden and sidewalk seating is Dopo Argento. I truly enjoyed my meal and cocktails here (great spicy margarita). If you are looking for great food and people watching, this is the place.

Bamboo’s Bar

Bamboo is a fun spot for sushi and more. It’s in the spot of the former Little Red, which I loved and miss so much. The decor is beautiful inside and so festive in the outdoor covered patio. It’s amazing even for people who aren’t sushi lovers because there are so many truly delicious cooked dishes. If you’re interested, my favorite dishes are Spicy Tuna on Crispy Rice Cakes, Wok Seared Mongolian Beef, and Bang Bang Chicken. They also have killer cocktails, and they use one of my two favorite tequilas, Espolòn, in many of them.

Outdoor dining at Pellegrino’s

For a more casual but seriously delicious Italian dinner, head to Pellegrino’s Pizza Bar & Restaurant, where they serve amazing pizza and so much more. This inviting spot is about 10 minutes from Southampton Village but worth the drive for affordable fare that will exceed your taste expectations. The pizzas are divine, and my favorite pastas are Scampi Wild Shrimp and Amatriciana. Also try the Eggplant Parmigiana Rustica—I’m a meat eater and LOVE this dish!

People outside of the Hamptons know Tate’s Bake Shop primarily for their cookies. Well, if you’re a Tate’s lover, you’ll be in heaven if you visit Southampton. But truth be told, it’s not the cookies that make me stop the car. I’m more of a soft and moist cookie kind of gal. But I LOVE their Three Berry Crumble pies. And I suggest you pick up one because they aren’t sold outside of the Hamptons.

Our best impression of The Southampton Fudge Company mascot

For a cold treat on a hot summer night (or day) in Southampton, visit The Southampton Fudge Company for ice cream (and fudge and other candy) or Sant Ambroeus for gelato. The Village of Southampton has plenty of benches on which you can sit to enjoy your sweet treats.

WATER MILL

Calissa at Night

Calissa in Water Mill is a Greek restaurant that also doubles as quite a hot night spot. You can’t go wrong with seating because the outdoor space is beautiful and summertime festive, while the indoor space is sexy and hip. There is live music entertainment on Thursday, and a DJ every Friday and Saturday night, and that really amps up the energy. This also makes it tougher to secure a reservation, but if you do, you’ll be happy to dine and spend some time having more cocktails after dinner. Check their calendar for a schedule of events.

I have yet to try Kissaki in Watermill, but it comes highly recommended so it is on my list for this summer. It’s a traditional Omakase experience. O in East Hampton adds grilled hot foods, small plates, and craft cocktails to the delicious sushi menu offered.

BRIDGEHAMPTON

Elaia indoor beauty

Elaia Estiatorio is one of my favorite restaurants in the Hamptons. Serving authentic Greek cuisine just south of Montauk Highway, this Bridgehampton spot is a must. The beautiful, U-shaped bar is the hub of the restaurant, and this joint takes its ambiance and decor as seriously as its food. Every evening feels like an occasion to celebrate with owner Sofia Crokos, who is also a special events planner, decorating the space with fresh flowers, fresh bread, desserts, and accessories that will transport you directly to the Greek Isles. If it’s your birthday, prepare to celebrate in a big way with Greek music and lots of hoopla from the entire restaurant! On the menu, you must try the Fried Zucchini Chips (you’ll never want to eat potato chips or French fries again!) And they typically offer Saganaki, which is kefalograviera cheese that is coated with sesame seeds and pan-fried. My favorite preparation is with tomato marmalade, but their offering changes and it’s all delicious! Read more about Elaia here.

The bar at Topping Rose’s restaurant

Topping Rose House in Bridgehampton is a Jean-Georges restaurant and has wonderful food and a happening bar and restaurant scene. During our first meal, we dined next to Christie Brinkley, and it's also a favorite of Ina and Jeffrey. One New Year’s Eve we dined with our children before heading to a friend’s house to ring in the New Year, and it was a surprisingly good deal for our kids, as they ate for “free” with our prix fixe meals. I’m not sure if they’ll ever repeat that deal, but we were very happy about it.

Candy Kitchen maintains an old school vibe

Candy Kitchen in Bridgehampton is a great casual diner, but we like to go for ice cream and milkshakes. Open daily for breakfast, lunch, and dinner...or ice cream and shakes to go!

SAG HARBOR

Just a peek at the Sag Pizza menu

If you’re looking for the Hamptons with a little touch of New England, head to Sag Harbor for a meal, shopping, and even the beach. Sag Pizza serves up some of the best pizza around in a festive atmosphere that is kid-friendly while still being a place I’d be happy to go on a fun date. While they do offer the expected toppings on pizza, they have options with truffle paste (you’ll die and go to heaven!), kale, and even a pizza with clams and guanciale—yes, all on one pizza! Outdoor seating is available.

Le Bilboquet first opened in New York City, but as with many favorite places of Manhattanites, they don’t want to live without it for the summer. So this Sag Harbor location has become a favorite, especially with its waterfront location and weekend DJ.

And as I mentioend earlier, there is a Tutto Il Giorgno here, as well.

Buddhaberry

For dessert in Sag Harbor, head to Buddhaberry for the best frozen yogurt with a million and one topping options. But frozen yogurt isn’t all they do—they have crepes, açaí bowls, waffles, and shakes and smoothies. It’s a very popular spot, but it seems to be the place to be, and it lives up to the hype with so much variety in froyo flavors and other options to satisfy your sweet tooth.

Grindstone Coffee & Donuts

For brioche donuts and the best honey lavender latte with oat milk (my favorites), head to Grindstone Coffee & Donuts. If you want my advice, order the simpler donuts. I’m personally not a huge fan of the stuffed, overly topped varieties. But I LOVE Cinnamon Sugar and Classic Glazed.

SHELTER ISLAND

I have only been to Shelter Island once. That’s because I used to think it was difficult to get there. But it’s SO incredibly easy. The car ferries run continuously to and from North Haven during summer months, and the ride is short, steady, and fun. We dined at SALT, which is right on the water, and we truly enjoyed the food ambiance, even during a storm. Now that we know how easy it is to get to Shelter Island, we’re going to be exploring a lot more.

HAMPTON BAYS

Enjoying the lobster roll outside at Canal Cafe (messy fingers, lip, and all!)

Canal Cafe in Hampton Bays is a meal with a view. The food is actually very good, but you really come to literally sit on the water--many of the tables are on a deck that is an extension of the boat docks. They don't take reservations, but you can have a drink at the bar or one of a few outdoor picnic tables while you wait. I love their lobster roll, and we’ve also been very happy with many of their daily specials

Also in Hampton Bays is a spot called Cowfish. I share this with the disclaimer that I’ve actually never stepped foot through their door. But so many people rave about it, so I’m going to finally get there this year (I said that last year, but this time I mean it)! I just haven’t gone because it’s a longer drive from our house. The Crispy Brussel Sprouts and Skillet Cornbread are calling my name. And like Canal Cafe, you can’t beat the views.

EAST HAMPTON

The view at Si Si (photo via Si Si Instagram)

I really don’t get to East Hampton a lot for dinner. Not because there is a shortage of fabulous restaurants. Just because of the traffic, and I like to walk or take a quick Uber to dinner. But restaurants you can count on are Nick & Toni’s for superb Italian, and Si Si for the fabulous food and an even more spectacular sunset along Three Mile Harbor.

AMAGANSETT

We seldom drive farther east than Bridgehampton, but there are a few places that are worth the drive. Take a drive to East Hampton, do a little shopping, and then head to The Lobster Roll, also known as LUNCH, in Amangansett. It’s open every day from lunch until 9:30 pm. It’s such a festive beachside “shack” decorated in red, white, and blue with umbrellas, picnic tables, and a pebbled outdoor space. And the service is warm and friendly. Do I even need to tell you what to order? Well, perhaps. You can actually get a lobster salad roll made with mayo, but my favorite is the hot lobster roll. The lobster comes served in melted butter with the roll on the side so you can stuff as much as you want into the roll or just enjoy the sweet taste of lobster. One last tip: Don’t be dismayed by the crowd of people you see waiting to be fed. The line actually moves rather quickly, and they serve up tasty beverages (some with alcohol if you need help chilling during the wait)—I was quite pleased with my piña colada during our last visit!

New to Amagansett last year and worth the drive for me, is Il Buco Al Mare. I used to order from Il Buco on Bond Street when my hair stylist had her salon there. There is nothing on the menu that isn’t amazing. And their spot out east is no different. Their garden for outdoor dining is lovely.

Photo via Clam Bar Instagram

No visit to The Hamptons is complete without a visit to the Clam Bar, the quintessential clam shack, with so much more deliciousness beyond clams.

MONTAUK

The Crow’s Nest is a sure win in Montauk for its food, stunning grounds, and a cute little bar down by the water so you can have a drink while you wait for your table. It’s also part of a small boutique hotel, in which I’ve never stayed, but judging from the website, it’s super cute and boho chic!

New in 2022 in Montauk is Roberta’s Montauk. This popular Brooklyn-based pizza joint will now offer dine-in and takeout all the way at the end.

If you’re planning to spend a day on the beach in Montauk, make sure to make a pitstop at Herb’s Market on Main Street to pick up provisions for a picnic lunch. They’re known for their fried chicken, even by people who typically don’t eat fried chicken. But there is so much more, including prime meats, if you’re planning to cook a meal at home that evening.

WHERE TO STAY IN THE HAMPTONS

Wouldn’t it be nice to rest your head here? No worries, I’ve listed realistic options. Just dreaming.

Because I have a house in the Hamptons, I’ve never stayed at a hotel or B&B. So I’m going to list a few that I know of by reputation, with the disclaimer that I don’t have any personal experience sleeping there. That said, a realtor can also help you rent a place if you’re staying at least two weeks. That’s the minimum for them to write a lease. The owner pays the commission, so there is no downside to using someone who knows the area and properties. There are three realtors that I know personally, and I appreciate their work ethic and integrity. So if you’re looking to rent (or buy), give them a call. In alphabetical order, they are: Susan Hovdesven with Douglas Elliman (she is actually my neighbor), Myles Reilly with Saunders (he helped us purchase our home with an insane seller), and Dana Trotter with Sotheby’s (who actually got us amazing offers on our home but then we decided not to sell due to the pandemic). They are all so wonderful and have high standards and amazing taste.

Lake Agawam in Southampton

To rent for a few nights, check out: The Bridgehampton Inn in Bridgehampton, Topping Rose House in Bridgehampton, 1770 House in East Hampton, Mill House Inn in East Hampton, The Baker House in East Hampton, and Gurney’s in Montauk.

Groovy Suzie on the beach in Southampton last summer

For an oceanfront and truly unique experience, reach out to LI Glampers. It was founded by a family who has traveled all over the country in a camper. They have a fleet of themed campers, and they’ll deliver to approved camping spots across Long Island. One of those spots is ON the beach in Southampton. Yes, like on the sand. You must make your own campsite reservations, and that is separate from your glamper reservation. The website explains it, but I’m sure they’d be happy to help you understand it all if you give them a ring. The company can also connect you with partners of theirs for surfing and stand up paddle board lessons.

HAMPTONS EVENING ENTERTAINMENT

Sunset while waiting for the Drum Circle performance to begin

Drum Circle festivities at Sagg Main Beach in Sagaponack begin every Monday during the summer around 6 pm. This appears to be an independently organized group and event, not run by the town of Southampton. The drum circle musicians don't appear to be on a strict schedule, beginning somewhere around 7 pm. Bring your beach blanket and chairs, wine (AND cups to conceal it), and any food you like for an evening picnic. The kids will enjoy the company of other kids who are running in the sand, dipping their toes in the water, jumping from the lifeguard chair, flying kites, and dancing to the beat of the drum circle. To park in the lot next to the beach, you'll need a sticker on your ride. Otherwise be prepared for a parking ticket.

Sunset picnic at Wolffer Winestand

You might think you need to ditch the kids to go wine tasting. Not in The Hamptons. Make your Friday or Saturday evening a treat for all at Wolffer Winestand. From 5 pm to sunset, it's a "picnic" like no other. Bring your blankets and beach chairs and find a spot on the grounds right alongside the vines. The Winestand sells wines by the bottle, cheese platters, and other lite bites that you can enjoy with friends while your kids run, frolic, dance to the live music, and roll down the small hills into the vineyard.

What’s a summer vacation without at least one round of miniature golf? Hamptons Mini Golf is open daily from 9 am to 11 pm, but we prefer to go in the evening when it’s cooler. A driving range is also on site. (During colder months, they open their ice rink.)

On Monday evenings from late July through August, Cooper’s Beach in Southampton has drive-in movies. Check the beach for movies and show times. Most Sundays at 5 pm, there is live music. Bring your beach chairs and gather round.

DAY TRIP (WINE and/or OYSTERS)

If you’re a wine lover, the best place for wine tasting (IMO) is the North Fork because there are so many wineries close to one another. But the North Fork has so much more to offer besides just wine. Click here to read my blog post on One Day on the North Fork.

In The Hamptons, a few wineries to note are Wolffer, Channing Daughters, Duck Walk, and just one year old is Bridgehampton Breeze Winery.

DAYTIME EXCURSIONS

A few summers ago, we went kayaking as a family for the first time. And it couldn’t have been easier thanks to what was at the time, Main Beach Surf & Sport. Although the shop has closed, Main Beach Xpeditions is still around with the former owner of the shop. They deliver kayaks, stand up paddle boards, and canoes all over the East End, making a day of fun easy with zero hassle. We had our kayaks dropped on Georgica Pond and kayaked to Georgica Beach and back. We had lunch on the sand at the beach. This was actually a treat because it’s typically a private beach for residents of the neighborhood, but not when you arrive by kayak! When we were finished, we left our kayaks where we found them, and they came to pick them up. They also run a surf camp if that’s of interest.

Speaking of surf lessons, a friend of mine was thrilled when her daughter (who was 5 at the time of her first lesson) and husband became real surfers thanks to the professionals at Hamptons Surf Co. Best of all, you can choose to book in advance or call the day before. The owner, Kurt Rist, seems super flexible. My eldest son learned last summer and showed off again during our recent trip to Costa Rica.

In between wakesurfing, kneeboarding, and tubing with The Riders Hamptons

Last summer we rented a boat and crew (captain and water sports expert) from The Riders Hamptons. We had such a wonderful time tubing, wake surfing, and kneeboarding. The company offers a few different types of boats that accommodate various numbers of passengers, and you can rent for two hours or longer. Boats leave out of Sag Harbor. They also offer camps for small groups. You can send your kids out for a few hours of fun while you enjoy shopping, beach time, or a quiet, adult lunch.

If you’re in the mood for a hike and a quiet beach, visit the Elizabeth Morton Nature Preserve. Hike down to the beach while observing and listening to wild birds. You might even spot a wild turkey. And if you take a little bird seed, stand quietly still, and hold the birdseed in the palm of your hand, a bird may just come take it from you. Hike to the beach and use the free telescopes to see for miles. Or just act like a kid and skip rocks. Parking is $5 on the honor system.

For a splashing good time during summer months, take the family to Splish Splash in Riverhead. The lines can be long, but for a small fortune, they offer a speed pass to minimize your wait times.

Berry (and other fruits and vegetables) picking is a favorite pastime for my kids and me in the Hamptons. There are so many places throughout the East End. We’ve been to Hank’s (which at the time of this posting says it is temporarily closed) and Seven Ponds Orchards and have enjoyed both. Just make sure you call ahead or check their websites to confirm what they’re currently picking.

Not really a day excursion, but I can’t figure out where to place this. Agawam Park in Southampton is a wonderful playground, often with some shade, and my kids (and husband and I) have the best time there. And if you’re not into running around, just enjoy the beautiful sunsets.

Another playground that is wonderful for kids is at Mashashimuet Park in Sag Harbor. Slides, tire swings, merry-go-rounds, a spider rope maze, and so much more. And if you tire of that, there are nearby tennis courts and soccer and baseball fields. Sag Harbor town is a short walk away.

HAMPTONS FARM STANDS & FOOD MARKETS

We are definitely not the Hamptons people who go out every night. I'm a RHONY, but I'm a real housewife of NYC, so I'm used to cooking. But truth be told, I love entertaining and welcoming people into my home. I enjoy visiting local farm stands and markets, and cutting fresh herbs from the herb pots that my kids and I plant every summer, to create something special for our guests. And it's sort of nice to come in from the pool or beach, have a margarita, and hang out with family or friends without getting all gussied up every night. So if you're the chef, here are a few of my favorite spots to procure goods for cooking at home. 

I love to visit North Sea Farms for fresh chickens when I'm making beer can chicken. In addition, they have all the fresh produce you could want, including organic corn that's wonderful on the cob or in my simple but delicious summer corn salad. My favorite thing about this local farm stand is that they have a sign every day detailing what is organic and what is conventional, and this is terrific if you're like me and are finicky about what you feed your family.

The Green Thumb's Fresh Herbs

The Green Thumb in Water Mill is a short drive from Southampton and a reliable place for quality produce. They also sell fresh herbs in pots so you can plant your own for the season. Most weekends, they sell pies prepared by local bakers. And outside of the farm stand is a wooden train that your kids can play on while you're shopping, and it's right next to a small chicken coop that also houses a beautiful peacock. And you may get lucky and run into Katie Lee or Brooke Shields (who is so lovely!)

Round Swamp Farm has three farm stand locations, one in Bridgehampton, another in East Hampton, and another farther out in Montauk. It has a reputation for two reasons. They have wonderful baked goods, fish, meats, prepared foods and produce. This place is not a bargain, so be sure to pay attention and look for the prices on the bottoms of their prepared foods. Thanks to a friend of ours who appears to be a grill-master, we visited Round Swamp to purchase burgers from Pat LaFrieda, a meat purveyor that used to pack meat in our old 'hood, The Meatpacking District. The burgers are amazing.

Amber Waves in Amagansett is a place I always stop if I’m further east. I consider it a treat.

If fish is on your menu, be sure to visit the Clamman Seafood Market in Southampton. They have every kind of fish you could imagine, caught daily, plus more live lobsters than the waters of Maine (well, not really, but you get the point). And if you're not in the mood for cooking, they have a fantastic and reasonably priced takeout menu with everything from fried clams and oysters to grilled fish. 

Peconic Prime Meats is right next door to the Clamman. Any cut of meat you could want, along with house-made sausages, are available for the best cookout of the summer. Prices are reasonable, too.

For the best bagels, head to Goldberg’s Famous Bagels. We go to the one on County Road 39 before getting to Southampton Village. I personally love their flagels. Additional locations are in Sag Harbor, Wainscott, and East Hampton.

If you need beer and wine, there are two favorite spots for us. Right in the village of Southampton near the Stop ‘n Shop is Lamplighter Wines & Liquors. It’s family run, and you always get an honest recommendation from the owner. He’ll give you a good wine at a reasonable price versus talking you into buying the most expensive. If you’re driving in and want to load up before unpacking, Zabi’s Wines & Spirits and Peconic Beverage are neighbors and share the same parking lot on County Road 39. Get your…wine and spirits…at Zabi’s and your beer at Peconic. One stop shopping made easy.

If you've never made it inside its location in New York City, you may want to try Levain Bakery in Wainscott to get a thick slice of their chocolate chip banana bread or one of their killer giant cookies. They have lots of other flatbreads, breads, and pastries, but I just named my favorites.

Ye Olde Bake Shoppe in Southampton is the best kept secret in The Hamptons. Stop by and get one of their to-die-for cinnamon rolls. Really. Don't leave without buying one. You will thank me later.

I’m gonna go out on a limb and say you will never be disappointed with anything from Carissa’s Bakery. Breads, cakes, pies, pastries…and more. I’ve listed it in this section because most people carry out, but the Pantigo Road location has outdoor dining in their garden on a first come, first served basis.

A friend of mine is a private chef for a family, and he frequently shops at Red Horse Market in East Hampton. So if you’re out that way and in need of meat, fish, produce, or ready-made salads, this is the spot.

And finally, my friend Ben from Maison Benjamin is a private chef and would love to prepare a beautiful meal for you in the Hamptons. His company will also do just about anything else you want to make your life easier.

HAMPTONS SPECIAL EVENTS

Hamptons Polo is a Hamptons event that everyone should do at least once. There are two dates for Hamptons Polo 2022: July 23 and July 30. Dress up, see it all and be seen. There’s food, music, drinks, vendors sharing clothing and cocktails, and…I almost forgot…a polo match. Get your tickets here.

Taking in the Scenery at the The Hamptons Classic

The Hamptons Classic is a horse show that happens every August in Brideghampton. This year it’s August 28 through September 4. The kids will love watching the jumping competitions, as will you. And because it's in The Hamptons, it's sponsored by wonderful brands who bring lots of extra stuff for the family to enjoy. There is typically a kids tent with loads of arts and crafts activities like cookie decorating from Citarella, an area with farm animals, pony rides, and even playground equipment. For the adults, there are food trucks, cars and boats on display from luxury companies, and a shopping tent and mobile shopping trucks.

A pony ride at the Hamptons Classic

The Southampton July 4th Parade is the quintessential small town holiday parade. Residents bring their beach chairs to line Main Street and watch old cars, marching bands, and the like stroll by. 

You’ll also want to see fireworks around the 4th of July holiday. Spectacular views of the show can be seen along Meadow Road in Southampton/Shinnecock over Shinnecock Bay. The police are kind enough to allow people to just park on the side of the road. There are several other spots throughout The Hamptons with fireworks, so check local listings for dates and times.

There are a few carnivals in the Hamptons that my kids love. The big one is the North Sea Fire Department’s Carnival during the week of July 4th. This is the Mac Daddy of summer carnivals because they have a great fireworks show a few nights at around 10 pm. I also like that it’s run in large part by volunteers for the fire department, so it has more of that hometown carnival feel than some of the others.

The Southampton Carnival seems to come and go a few times throughout the summer. It’s a small town carnival with a huge potato sack slide, a small roller coaster, games, candy apples, and the whole shebang. It’s a great carnival for smaller children. The carnival sets up shop on County Road 39 as you're driving into Southampton. 

There’s also a carnival in Bridghampton on Montauk Highway near the Carvel store. It’s probably the closest to North Sea’s in terms of size and types of rides. All carnival dates change every summer, so just check local updates when visiting.

HAMPTONS SHOPPING

Aerin in Southampton Village

The towns of Southampton, East Hampton, and Sag Harbor are loaded with both high-end and local shops.

Southampton favorites of mine are The Westside, Katherine Tess, Aerin, Tenet, Eres, The Great, Homenature, and Sferra. Just outside of Southampton Village is Mecox Gardens for every interior design and garden lover.

In Sag Harbor, in addition to a few favorites listed below, make sure you visit Hudson & Grace for beautiful dishes and other home accessories to entertain in style, Love Shack Fancy, Faherty, and new this year are Dragon Hemp Apothecary, which sells CBD Hemp extracts combined with Chinese herbs to create therapeutic medicines, and Andie for swimwear.

In East Hampton, there is a shop for every woman who is looking to add to her wardrobe. It’s heaven. A few of my favorites are Reformation for the best fitting dresses and East Hampton Gardens for everything home and garden. I believe EH Gardens is also a favorite of Ina Garten.

In Bridgehampton, a favorite spot for all things cooking and entertaining is Loaves & Fishes Cookshop on Main Street/Montauk Highway.

Kite Flying on Cooper's Beach (Kite from Kites of the Harbor)

Kites of the Harbor in Sag Harbor is a must if you're in The Hamptons and have kids (or just like kite flying). The beaches usually have a nice breeze, perfect for this pastime. The best thing about the shop is that the employees know which kites are easiest to fly and those that are more difficult so that your kids won't be disappointed on even their first attempt. The shop also carries fun costumes, toys, and gadgets and is located on the town's quaint Main Street.

Topiaire Candy Shop in Southampton Village is reminiscent of the old penny candy shops that I frequented as a child to purchase Mary Janes and Squirrel Nut Zippers. It's a charming spot and will delight kids and adults alike with the candies from our younger days, as well as giant gummy sharks that my kids seem to enjoy.

A beautiful tabletop at Goop

For as long as I can remember now, there has been a Goop in Sag Harbor, so stop by to see your favorite GP recommendations in person. It started as a pop-up, but thankfully it seems to be a permanent fixture now. There are so many wonderful shops in The Hamptons that I can't list them all. But many of them, like MONC XIII, are in Sag Harbor, so if you can only shop one day, make it the day you visit this beautiful town that is reminiscent more of Nantucket than the rest of The Hamptons.

The view inside MONC XIII

Serena & Lily only has a handful of brick and mortar stores throughout the country, so be sure to visit their Beach Market location in Wainscott. They have lots of fun events with cocktails and book signings throughout the summer, so be sure to check their Instagram and website if you'll be in the area.

Treasures inside Marie-Christine Design Shop

If you drive a bit farther than Serena & Lily, you’ll get to Red Horse Plaza. There are a few great shops if you’re looking for art and interior inspiration. One of my favorites is Marie-Christine Design Shop. She is one of my favorite interior designers, and I nearly passed out when I learned she had a storefront with some special things she has found and is reselling.

ON A RAINY DAY

On a rainy day, there is still lots to do in The Hamptons. Long Island is home to wonderful wineries in The Hamptons and the North Fork that I mention in this post. The Parrish Art Museum is a wonderful place to visit and get some culture. Just don't go on a Tuesday because they are closed.

If you have young kids, they'll enjoy The Children's Museum of the East End in Bridgehampton. Or take a short drive to Riverhead to Safari Adventure, an indoor play area with bouncy slides, arcade games, and a multi-level human crawling maze, complete with slides, that even adults can enjoy. You can also hit the Long Island Aquarium to feed stingrays, see sharks, be entertained by a live sea lion show, or walk around with a butterfly on your head in the butterfly conservatory. This aquarium is truly worth a visit. The Rogers Memorial Library in Southampton also has free classes (registration required, usually in advance) for children. But if you can’t get into a class, there’s always good old-fashioned book selection and reading.

The Montauk Lighthouse is a fun destination because it’s literally right on the end of Long Island. Kids will enjoy walking up the spiral staircase to the top. Just be patient because it’s a narrow staircase and can get a little cozy with people going both directions.

Views from Montauk

HAMPTONS OFF SEASON

If you can’t get to the Hamptons this summer, don’t worry, as the Fall is one of the best times to visit the because the crowds are gone, rental homes and hotels have lower rates, but the weather is still wonderful. And you don’t even need a beach pass, so you can park for free, without fear of a ticket, at some of the most beautiful beaches on the East Coast. Most shops and restaurants are still open. The one destination I’ll add for the Fall is Hank’s Pumpkintown. This is a child’s dream spot for the day. And they have everything you could want to celebrate this season on one plot of land. Pumpkins, of course. Apple cider donuts, apple picking, a hayride of the best kind (without hay to make you itch and sneeze), corn mazes, slides coming out of giant farm equipment, pedal dune buggies, a giant bouncy pillow, face painting, apple blasting (a MUST!), a corn train ride around one of the pumpkin patches, mums and gourds for sale, and even more, but I’m exhausted listing it all. Trust me, you and your kids will have a fabulous time, and they’ll sleep well. Pumpkintown is only open from the weekend after Labor Day until Halloween, giving you one more reason to visit after Summer’s end.

This list is always work in progress. My hope is that it will make your trip to The Hamptons stress-free and more enjoyable. Always feel free to message me here or on my social media pages with questions. Hoping you experience the beauty of the Hamptons, love your time there, and eat lots of good grub.

xoxo,
Jennifer

PRETTY IN PINK

I never imagined or planned to take this lengthy of a hiatus from blogging. Although this photo seems to literally say otherwise, I did not turn my back on your or this site. I simply realized I was burning the candle at both ends, and something had to give. I love blogging, and at one time I thought I’d try to make it as a full time blogger and influencer. But other things have sparked my interest, and so I’m going to still enjoy this hobby and interacting with everyone I’ve met and love to follow, but my posts will not be as frequent as they once were. Some blog posts take a lot of time to write.

The dress I’m wearing in this shot is a favorite from last summer. I happened to be searching for more pink dresses, and I found a knock-off of it that’s still in stock. But if I’m going to publish a blog post after such a long break, I need to show you more than one dress.. So I’m rounding up a few of my favorite pink summer dresses for you. I really do love a pop of color during summer months, especially if our skin has an extra glow. Some are splurges and some are steals. I always say to buy what you love at a price you can afford. Everyone has a different budget, so I try to provide a broad range. In the end, I feel all of these are pink dresses you’ll enjoy for many summers to come.

SHOP DRESSES

BEST RESTAURANTS IN NEW YORK CITY

Some things in life really do come full circle. I feel like the chances of that happening are greater when you meet wonderful people. They leave a footprint. They’re associated with warm feelings of happy times, so when you hear their name, or if you’re lucky enough to meet up with them again later in life, you make time to rekindle the friendship. That’s what happened with Colin Camac, former owner of restaurants like Fatty Crab, Fatty Cue, Bar Fry, and Cabrito in Manhattan and Brooklyn. A short story about how I came to know Colin. And for those of you too impatient or short on time to read through the fun background, the point is that COLIN KNOWS RESTAURANTS. He’s shared his favorite New York restaurants for you to enjoy, and they’re all in this post, so scroll, scroll.

After undergrad, Colin was much like many 22-year-olds and uncertain about what he wanted to be when he grew up. So he traveled a bit, visiting his girlfriend who lived in Europe at the time. Once over the travel bug, he began attending the Institute for Culinary Education (ICE) and studied Restaurant Management. It’s worth noting that throughout his life, Colin had always worked summer jobs at restaurants in Long Island and in New York City during winter months. Food and restaurants were in his blood. His father was also in the restaurant business, and at a critical time in his life was the owner of 5 Ninth, a popular restaurant in a charming townhouse in the heart of the uber-hip Meatpacking District. Just as Colin was about to begin the culinary/cooking portion of his ICE education, his father shared the news of a new restaurant opening: Fatty Crab on Hudson Street. So Colin decided to take the money planned for school, put his formal education on hold, and invest in Fatty Crab for some hardcore training: owning and managing a restaurant in the coolest neighborhood in Manhattan.

The concept of Fatty Crab began as a sandwich shop, serving a handful of sandwiches on the menu at 5 Ninth that didn’t quite fit in with the rest of their offering. Zak Pelaccio, then chef of 5 Ninth, was to be the chef at Fatty Crab, as well. But about a month before the restaurant’s opening, they decided to make it a full-on Malaysian bistro. And the final product was a fun neighborhood spot, frequented by residents, AND one to which people traveled from all over the city and waited for an hour to taste the cuisine and scream over the loud music at dinner companions as part of the the sometimes raucous ambiance.

Colin Camac (left) and my husband and me. Reunited and it felt so good!

At the time when Fatty Crab in the West Village opened, my husband and I were living (before kids) just a few blocks away. We had disposable income and a lot of free time, so we dined at Fatty Crab at least once a week (sometimes more). But it wasn’t just the food that made us return week after week. It was the energy, the friendships, the entertaining conversations, and the sometimes after hours partying (my husband did this waaaay more than I did). Besides Colin, there was our favorite British waiter, James, who would present a $30 bill after we’d ordered $200 worth of food and drinks. So as a show of our appreciation, we left James a $100 tip. Devin was our favorite manager/host. Adam was a mean mixologist, creating and serving some of the most unique and delicious cocktails.

After Fatty Crab in the West Village came Bar Fry, Cabrito, Fatty Crab on the Upper West Side, and Fatty Cue in Brooklyn. When the NYC restaurant business became too exhausting, Colin phased himself out, helped open a store in nearby Chelsea Market, and eventually transitioned to a job in sales at Resy five years ago. It’s now his job to know when the hottest new restaurant in New York is about to hit the scene, which helps him secure more restaurants using the Resy booking system…AND it’s good for us, as he frequently samples their cuisine and shares the scoop with me (and now all of you!) IMHO, Resy is THE place to go now for the very best tables in New York. And I love their notification feature that allows you to request a date and time, and they’ll send an email notification if a table opens up. Resy notifications are sent out at 4 pm every day, so if you’re trying to secure a spot but didn’t set a notification, check the site around that time for availability due to cancellations.

For those of you who took the time to read through this preamble, I thank you. So without further ado, I present to you, THE BEST RESTAURANTS in New York City! This is your official New York Dining Guide from an insider source.

 MEXICAN

For Mexican cuisine, two of the spots recommended are by the same owners.. Both have wonderful technique and serve an elevated level of Mexican food. And the icing on the cake? A fantastic mezcal selection and creative and delicious cocktails can be enjoyed.

Atla 372 Lafayette Street in NoHo (Manhattan) is a more approachable option.
Cosme 35 East 21st Street (Manhattan) serves wonderful food, of course, but is a bit more expensive than Atla.

Electric Burrito at 81 Saint Marks Place in the hip East Village (Manhattan) has the best burrito around. It’s very casual so don’t show up in stilettos.

Moving into another borough…

For All Things Good 343 Franklin Avenue (Brooklyn) is both a café and molino. So if you like what you taste, you can take home some housemade tortillas and try to create a few delicious meals of your own. Or at least a cheese quesadilla.

Claro 284 Third Avenue (Gowanus Brooklyn) brings Oaxaca to you. It goes beyond just the cuisine…the tiles, art, dinner plates, and the overall attitude and vibe are all authentic to Oaxaca…but without the need for a passport. 

SUSHI

“Sushi Boss”

Juku 32 Mulberry St. (Manhattan) is a cooler and more fun way to enjoy the world’s freshest sushi. It has to be good if the sushi chef, Kazuo Yoshida, is known as the “Sushi Boss.” The main attraction is the upstairs small, omakase only sushi bar. On the ground level, there’s a wonderful cocktail bar to have drinks while you wait for your seating. They have a huge selection of Japanese whiskey if that’s your thing. On the same level is seating for a Japanese menu by Chef Koji Hagihara. And downstairs there is the Straylight Lounge with creative cocktails and small bites. We absolutely LOVED our entire experience here, especially since we were lucky enough to sit right in front of Kazuo. I may not be allowed back after all of my questions, but he was a great sport. You’ll need to go just to see his Louis Vuitton blow torch used for searing and to watch the “Uni King” prepare the uni bowls.

Sushi Yasuda 204 East 43rd Street (Manhattan) serves some of the best sushi in the world. It’s all about the fish with a very clean, modern feel. There isn’t a lot of ambiance, but do you really care if the sushi is that fresh and you’re with good company?

Nakaji 48 Bowery (Manhattan) was described by Colin as a “sexy” and fairly new and interesting, so that was all I needed to hear. It’s omakase only featuring Edomae-style sushi. Like Juku, it’s a small sushi bar, so you’ll need to work hard to secure a reservation. Tables for their cocktail bar are easier to secure on Resy.

Sushi Ginza Onadera 461 Fifth Avenue (Manhattan) is a place where you can enjoy lunch or dinner. For those not wanting to spring for the $400 dinner, you should try to score a spot at lunch, during which there are $100, $150, and $200 meal options. The $100 sounds perfect for me, and I’m looking forward to a visit very soon.

Rosella 137 Avenue A (Manhattan) is a sushi restaurant for those who like creative sushi rolls. They are also a “local” sushi spot, meaning they only serve fish from the East Coast. Yes, they’ll still serve you if you’re not a New Yorker, in case you were confused by “local.” ;-)

Shion 69 Leonard Street 69 Leonard Street in Tribeca (Manhattan) was described by Colin as the most traditional and authentic Japanese restaurant he’s been to outside of Japan. The price is a bit steep ($425 per person omakase), but it’s totally worth if if you can spring for it.

 
ITALIAN

Freshly shaved black truffles over pasta at Marea

Marea 240 Central Park South (Manhattan) is the perfect place for a special occasion. We’ve been for one of my husband’s birthday celebrations and an anniversary. More than just Italian, it also serves the most wonderful crudo.

Don Angie 103 Greenwich Avenue (Manhattan) is in the heart of the West Village and serves up authentic Italian cuisine because its owners/chefs have a long history in the restaurant business that began with Angie growing up in her family’s Italian bakery.

Café Lodi 1 Rockefeller Plaza (Manhattan) has a prime location to enhance the experience of an outstanding meal.

Al Di La 248 5th Avenue (Park Slope Brooklyn) is on the ground floor of a cozy townhouse. The Northern Italian cuisine is so delicious and comforting that it transports you straight to Italy. I have personally eaten here, and it remains one of the best year after year.

Francie 136 Broadway (Brooklyn) is new on the scene and a high end spot.

Frankies 457 Court Street (Carroll Gardens Brooklyn)

Via Carota 51 Grove Street (Manhattan) is old-world Italian in the heart of the West Village.

KOREAN BBQ

Cote Korean Steakhouse 16 West 22nd (Manhattan) is a high-end Korean BBQ restaurant where the meats are grilled right at your table.

Baekjeong 1 East 32nd Street (Manhattan) is a fun and delicious authentic Korean BBQ restaurant frequented by celebrities. My kids even love it! If you have a large party, you can secure a private room upstairs. And hey, why not hit a karaoke bar after for a little more fun?

 KOREAN

Her Name is Han 17 East 31 Street (Manhattan)

Joomak Banjum 312 5th Avenue (Manhattan) is Korean-Chinese fusion executed with French technique and expressed through New York culture.

 
SPECIAL OCCASION

The Grill 99 East 52nd Street (Manhattan)

4 Charles 4 Charles Street (Manhattan)

SEAFOOD

Dame 87 MacDougal Street (Manhattan)

OYSTER BAR/RAW BAR

Maison Premiere 298 Bedford Avenue (Williamsburg Brooklyn)

GREEK

Telly’s Taverna 28-13 23 Avenue (Astoria Queens)

VIETNAMESE

Falansai 112 Harrison Place (Bushwick Brooklyn)

Hanoi House 119 Saint Marks Place (Manhattan)

Madam Vo Kitchen 212 E 10th Street (Manhattan)

 CHINESE

Lobster & Potato Salad at Silver Apricot

Silver Apricot 20 Cornelia Street (Manhattan) is the most creative and best New-American-Chinese restaurant I’ve had to pleasure to eat at in a very long time. Cuisine aside, it’s one of the best restaurants period. It serves small plates that are meant to share, and every one is better than the one before. Do not even think about skipping the Scallion Puffs.

Hwa Yuan Szechuan 42 E Broadway (Chinatown Manhattan) has been owned by the same family in the same building for over since the 1980s. It was the first place in New York to serve cold sesame noodles. It closed for a few years and was used as a bank and then reopened four to five years ago by the same family.

Bonnie’s 398 Manhattan Avenue (Brooklyn) serves up delicious Cantonese-American cuisine.

 
SPANISH

Ernesto’s 259 East Broadway (Manhattan)

Le Vara 268 Clinton Street (Cobble Hill Brooklyn)

STEAKHOUSES

Gage & Tollner 372 Fulton Street (Brooklyn)

4 Charles 4 Charles Street (Manhattan)

Peter Luger 178 Broadway (Williamsburg Brooklyn) is a legend in New York. Have the bacon for an appetizer and put the Peter Luger Sauce on everything. Leave your credit card at home unless it’s the Peter Luger card. You can pay with that, cash, or a check with ID, but who carries a checkbook these days? If you can’t score a table for dinner, try lunch. When Atkins Nutritionals (The Atkins Diet) was my client back in the day, it was obviously a favorite spot for business lunches.

 
FRENCH

Le Crocodile 80 Wythe Avenue (Williamsburg Brooklyn)

Frenchette 241 West Broadway (Manhattan) was the winner of the James Beard Foundation award for Best New Restaurant of 2019.

Wildair 142 Orchard Street (Manhattan) is a Parisian-style bistro, although some call it a wine bar and some say it’s American. Regardless, the food is good.

Gabriel Kreuther 41 West 42 Street (Manhattan) is Alsatian cuisine. We actually dined here to celebrate one of my birthdays, and I was thrilled with every last bite.

BEST NEW RESTAURANT

Sixty Three Clinton 63 Clinton Street (Manhattan) is an amazing new restaurant that was a long time in the making because the two owners have been friends for 15 years and have worked together for over 10. It serves a $92 seven-course menu based on seasonal ingredients.

 
INDIAN

Dhamaka 119 Delancey Street (Manhattan) has the same ownership as the other favorite listed. A friend of mine has this on her favorites list, too, and says it’s wonderful if you like to spice things up a bit.

Semma 60 Greenwich Avenue (Manhattan) is Southern Indian cuisine, so if you like seafood and coconut, this is your spot.

WINE BAR

Wildair 142 Orchard Street (Manhattan) is known by many as a wine bar, so…

 
SANDWICH SHOPS

L’industrie 254 South 2nd Street (Brooklyn) is a pizzeria that you’ll want to visit on Wednesday afternoon for the “Wednesday Sandwich.”

Fiore’s House of Quality (Fiore’s Deli) 414 Adams St #2693 (Hoboken, NJ) is obviously not technically in New York. But take the car to Hoboken on Thursday and Saturday for their famous roast beef sandwich. An Italian is also a good choice.

 PIZZA

L’industrie 254 South 2nd Street (Brooklyn) has the best burrata slice this side of the Mississippi.

Prince Street 27 Prince Street (Manhattan) is best for their pepperoni square.

Ops 346 Himrod Street (Brooklyn)

Leo 123 Havemeyer Street (Brooklyn)

Lucali Brooklyn 575 Henry Street (Park Slope Brooklyn) tells you to, “Show up before 5. Put your name on the list. Go have a drink. We'll call you when your table is ready.”

Emmett’s 50 MacDougal Street (Manhattan) serves Chicago-style pizza, but Colin says we should go for the thin crust “Hot Poppy.”

BURGERS

4 Charles 4 Charles Street (Manhattan)

Best Burger 53 Little West 12th (Manhattan)

7th Street Burger 91 East 7th Street (Manhattan) is takeout and delivery only.

 
BAGELS

My kids even love Barney Greengrass.

Barney Greengrass 541 Amsterdam Avenue (Manhattan) is a New York City legend that happens to be a few blocks from our apartment. Our kids even love it! My favorites are their whitefish salad, pastrami smoked salmon, and their chocolate babka. Cash only on the weekends.

Sadelle’s 463 West Broadway (Manhattan) is more than just a bagel shop, so stop by if you want something a bit more fancy. (They also ave locations in Las Vegas and Paris!)

Russ & Daughters 127 Orchard Street (Manhattan) and 141 Flushing Avenue (Brooklyn) and is the place to go for bagels and everything that goes with them…to go. They also ship.

This was such a fun interview, so thank you, Colin! If you want to see the latest straight from the horse’s mouth, give Colin a follow on Instagram here. I’m working my way through the list for those I have yet to try. I feel fortunate to live here and be able to experience the top New York restaurants. I’ll keep you posted, and I hope you’ll do the same if you are lucky enough to dine out at one or a few.

xo,
Jennifer

BREAST CANCER AWARENESS: INVASIVE LOBULAR BREAST CANCER

My mom…surrounded by just a few of the people who love her.

I thought long and hard about whether or not to write this post. It’s one thing to be a blogger and share some of my personal life, but this is also about my mother’s life. Along with my children, my parents are the most precious people in the world to me. The date of this post is October 20, so it’s Breast Cancer Awareness Month. Unfortunately for my family, it’s also a reminder that my mother is undergoing treatment for her second battle with breast cancer. The time it’s Invasive Lobular Breast Cancer, aka Invasive Lobular Carcinoma (ILC). She’s had two surgeries, weeks of radiation, and is now on hormone therapy for the next 10 years. Next week she has follow-ups and a few more tests. It is not lost on me that we are among the lucky because this coming weekend, I’m going to see my mom. Many are not so fortunate and have lost their battle, leaving behind loved ones with eternally broken hearts.

I chose to write this post because of the type of breast cancer my mother had this time. Nine years ago, she was diagnosed with Invasive Ductal Carcinoma (IDC), which is the most common type of breast cancer, accounting for about 80% of all cases. This past February, she was diagnosed with Invasive Lobular Carcinoma (ILC), a less prevalent type but by no means “rare.” To put it into perspective, about 39,000 new cases of ILC are diagnosed each year, compared to about 227,000 cases of IDC.

It was important for me to bring awareness to this type of breast cancer because of the way it presents itself, which is part of the heartache I have with my mother’s diagnosis. We, meaning her physicians and I, all believe she’d been living with this cancer for far too long, and it went undetected on at least one mammogram over a year (perhaps longer) before it was finally spotted. That’s because histologically (the nature of the tissue structure), ILC often forms a distinct, single-file pattern rather than the more common “lump” with IDC. ILC has differences in presentation and behavior from ductal cancer. Symptoms can include hardening of the breast, swelling, changes in the appearance of the breast or nipple, skin changes, or breast pain. And because ILC may not form a lump, it can be harder to feel on a self breast exam and can be harder to see on a mammogram. Sometimes ILC may have no physical symptoms, but you should be aware of these, even if a mammogram is negative. If you have any of these physical symptoms, even with negative scans, you should consider talking with a doctor about additional imaging or an MRI. It is always important to remember that in most cases, these changes are NOT breast cancer, but it’s better to be safe than sorry IMO.

Although ILC can affect women at any age, it is more common as women grow older. According to the American Cancer Society, about two-thirds of women are 55 or older when they are diagnosed with any invasive breast cancer. But ILC tends to occur later in life — the early 60s as opposed to the mid- to late-50s with Invasive Ductal Carcinoma (IDC). My mom was 72 at the time of her diagnosis.

Some research has suggested that the use of hormone replacement therapy during and after menopause can increase the risk of ILC. This was likely the case with my mother, as over 95% of her tumor’s cells were positive for hormone receptors.

Finally, while I do not want to give advice on treatment…that should always be left to one’s surgeon and medical and radiation oncologists, I do want to highlight another difference in this type of cancer. When and if it metastasizes (spreads), it may travel to organs that are less common, such as the GI tract and ovaries.
The diagram below provides more information on metastatic sites and symptoms to be aware of when monitoring this disease in the long term.

The point of this post was to bring awareness to a type of breast cancer that presents itself differently than the common “lump” we are taught to watch for. Much of this information came from conversations with my mother’s physicians and my own research, and luckily, two sites were helpful in describing it in laymen’s terms. (This is my disclaimer for mild plagiarism!) For much of what is contained in this post and more, please visit the Lobular Breast Cancer Alliance and BREASTCANCER.ORG.

Finally, if you have not scheduled your mammogram, consider this your call to action. Sending my love and strength to all presently battling breast cancer and to those who have lost a loved one too soon to this horrible disease. I pray one day there is better technology for early detection and a cure.

xo,
Jennifer

ONE DAY ON THE NORTH FORK

I have fond memories of trips to “wine country.” For me, that always meant California. Our last trip there was seven years ago. And while I long to return, there’s another wine country right under my nose. The North Fork of Long Island. Until recently, we’d been to the North Fork for quick trips, but we couldn’t stay for long…certainly not long enough to go wine tasting…due to whiney kids. Perhaps one day they’ll drop the “h” and be much more pleasant company on these grown-up trips.

This month, we celebrated our 15-year wedding anniversary. A few weeks prior, my husband asked where we should go to dinner to mark the occasion. I replied, “I was hoping we could do something a bit more special.” I was secretly thinking it would be wonderful to visit the North Fork but wanted to hear what he suggested. A few minutes later he said, “Maybe we could get a babysitter and go wine tasting on the North Fork.” I suppose our mutual love of fermented grapes is one of the many reasons we got hitched in the first place.

So we made it happen. It really was the most perfect day. Even the weather cooperated. In order to enjoy the day, it requires proper planning and timing. And a big key is to NOT plan too much. You don’t want to be rushed. If your desire is to have one amazing day, knowing you can’t do it all, consider this your official North Fork guide.

Summary of the Day
As an agenda, we left the Hamptons at 10 am. Once on the North Fork, we started the day with a few pastries from Lombardi’s Love Lane Market (more on that in a bit) before wine tasting. We arrived at the first of three tastings at 11 a.m. It’s best to allow about an hour for each tasting. If a larger group and/or you plan to linger, you can certainly stay longer.  Then, of course, factor in your travel time when booking subsequent appointments. All places we visited offer food, so you don’t have to eat before the first tasting. I would recommend eating during at least one appointment to absorb the alcohol. Otherwise, you may not make it past the first spot. We nibbled at each winery so we didn’t have to stop at a separate place for lunch. After our third winery, we headed to a restaurant for oysters on the half shell (a must on the North Fork) and cocktails, and then onto an early dinner at 5 pm. We were back in the Hamptons at around 7:45 pm. 

Getting Around
If you can afford the splurge and don’t have a designated driver, I would suggest hiring a car service. It’s the responsible thing to do and allows everyone to enjoy tasting wine without taking unnecessary risks. We used Delux Transportation and were extremely happy. The car was clean, the driver professionally dressed, masked, and so accommodating. He used Waze and got us to every stop as quickly as possible. He didn’t speak unless we spoke to him…he just let us be and always asked, “Where’s the next stop?” They provided an hourly rate, tip was discretionary (and we were thrilled to tip due to the amazing service), and it was okay to go over or under our original time so long as we met the agreed upon minimum. 

Love Lane Kitchen in Mattituck

Fueling Up for the Day
Most tasting rooms open at 11 a.m. so it’s best to plan your first appointment then. If you’d like to enjoy a nice breakfast beforehand, I’d suggest Mattituck. For sit down dining, Love Lane Kitchen serves breakfast and lunch daily and is a quaint café serving traditional breakfast foods like eggs, pancakes, French toast, sausage and bacon. They also have oatmeal and yogurt with granola for something a bit healthier. Reservations are not accepted for breakfast or lunch, but they will take your number and text you when your table is ready. In the meantime, you can enjoy walking through the small downtown area. If you’d like something on the go for breakfast and/or a picnic later, just go one door down from Love Lane Kitchen to Lombardi’s Love Lane Market. We picked up pastries to go. But you can also order ahead if you know your plans. They have just about anything your heart desires. Their catering menu is here, and they make wonderful charcuterie for nearby picnicking if that tickles your fancy. 

VINEYARDS

A few notes before I get to the actual wineries we visited. All three wineries we visited required an appointment, as is the case with most. They’re understanding if you don’t arrive at the exact time, as long as their booking schedule can accommodate you. I recommend visiting during the week if you’re able. Weekends, especially those with great weather, are very busy for North Fork wine tasting. Prior to this, our last wine tasting trip was to Napa and Sonoma, where some places offered sit down tastings and others required you to find yourself a spot at the counter. On the North Fork, all of our experiences were sit-down service, which we really loved. It allows you to truly relax and enjoy the wines without losing track of what you’re tasting or requiring someone to pour your next glass. I was so impressed by the thought and care that went into presenting the wine offerings. (Photos ahead.)

Many places are kid-friendly and pet-friendly. Indoor and outdoor seating are often both offered. Private tasting rooms are offered at some. Check with each for options.

Macari Vineyards
Our first stop was Macari Vineyards in Mattituck. It was established in 1995, although the family has owned the 500-acre property for over 50 years. 180 acres are vines. They raise their own cattle and make their own compost, which is used for fertilizer. 

Brianna, Guest Relations Manager, was the master of hospitality from the time our reservation was booked until we bid farewell. It was also a pleasure to meet the General Manager, Paulina. Both made us feel extremely welcome and even shared their favorite restaurants and oyster shacks on the North Fork. 

Wine & Charcuterie in the Private Tasting Room

It was such a treat to enjoy time in the Private Tasting Room with doors that opened onto the patio and the vineyard. That said, we would have been just as thrilled to have been seated outside on the covered porch. The photos of this oasis among the vines speak for themselves. Brianna explained the three wines we were tasting, but just in case we forgot, there was a handy menu with tasting notes for each. The charcuterie board was fit for a king (and queen) with a variety of cheese, our favorite fig spread, meats, olives, almonds, hummus, crackers and baguette. Wines for the tasting will vary depending on when you go and the number of wines you try. 

The Barrel Tasting Room
(photo courtesy of Macari Vineyards)

There are a few options for tastings depending on the size of your group, your desired experience, and your budget. For larger groups and enhanced experiences, there’s the Private Tasting Room as mentioned, the Barrel Tasting Room, and in the Fall, parties of two to six guests will be able to book a cozy bungalow from 1-4 pm to include a gourmet lunch prepared by Chef Lauren Lombardi. 

Inside a Bungalow
(Photo courtesy of Macari Vineyards)

We loved the 2017 Dos Aguas and the 2019 Sauvingon Blanc Lifeforce so much that we went home with a few bottles.

Lieb Cellars
The outdoor tasting patio of Lieb Cellars is part of its charm and authenticity. The design lover in me first spotted the painted steel barn with red doors. We were thrilled to relax under the striped awning that kept us shaded and cool while enjoying the view of the beautiful organic farm across the street. Pick a spot, and a friendly server like ours, Dana, will be around to discuss the wines and help you make a selection.

We chose the Estate Wine Tasting for a mix of reds and whites. Their whites are crisp and reflective of Long Island wines. Their reds, aged in Hungarian oak, allow the varietals to really show off. I am not a wine expert by any stretch, but the one thing I noticed when tasting Lieb wines were the aromas. Without making an effort, the wines made such a pleasant introduction before even touching my lips. I enjoyed the blossom of their Pinot Blanc and the vanilla and cedar of the Chardonnay. We also tried their Bridge Lane Sauvignon Blanc since that is my favorite varietal during summer months. I loved it so much that we went home with a bottle. 

Rose Hill Vineyards

The tasting patio of Rose Hill Vineyards is tucked behind their rustic and charming Farmhouse Inn. If you’re looking for an overnight stay, I’d recommend investigating. The outside is beautiful, and the photos of the rooms look just as wonderful, although I didn’t personally tour the inside.

Your view for the afternoon overlooks the vineyard and Moroccan tents, which you may sit under to enjoy your wine if you choose. Tunes with a cool European vibe were playing during our visit, causing me to question whether I was in the North Fork or Provence.

We each ordered a different flight so we could experience more of the wines. One each of the Classic Flight and the New Release Flight. The Charcuterie Board paired well with the wines. As someone who loves entertaining guests, I was so impressed by the way each vineyard presented their wines. How adorable are these rustic metal trays holding the tasting glasses?

Of the wines we tasted, my favorites were the 2019 Sparkling Rosé and the Non-Vintage Red Blend (my husband’s favorite, too). As a special treat, since we enjoyed the Non-Vintage Red Blend so much, our server brought us the Wild Bore Doe, a full-bodied Bordeaux blend with grippy tannins. Of course you can purchase wines in their delightful shop, along with a bag of North Fork Potato Chips if you’d like (yes, I’m giving you a tip here!)

RESTAURANTS (and more)

We limited our tastings to three vineyards, and I think that’s a great number. Perhaps we could have handled one more, but we had other things to check off our wish list. As you know, I love to cook. And visiting farm stands is one of my favorite things to do during summer months out east. So on the way to Greenport, we stopped by Sang Lee Farms Farm Stand in Peconic. I’m going to go out on a limb and say this is the best farm stand on the North Fork. It’s certainly my favorite North Fork farm stand. I picked up a few items, one being seasonal squash blossoms. They have absolutely anything and everything you could want from the garden, and the staff is so incredibly friendly and helpful.

For oysters and dinner, we decided to head to Greenport. If you want your pick of outstanding restaurants, all within walking distance of one another, this is the place to be. The town sits along the water and is filled with charming old homes and shops, making for spectacular views in almost any spot. After dinner, you can walk to get ice cream at Ralph’s of Greenport. If you have children or want to pretend to be a kid for a few moments, take a ride on the Antique Carousel near the marina. At just $2 per ride, it’s the best ticket in town. Or just marvel at the beautiful yachts at the dock.

Little Creek Oysters
No visit to this area is complete without North Fork oysters. If you like oysters, that is. We could eat raw oysters All. Day. Long. Because we had dinner reservations at 5 pm, we stopped at one dozen each while enjoying these slimy creatures, the gorgeous view, cocktails, and the laid-back, authentic vibe of Little Creek Oysters.

If you’re feeling adventurous, you can shuck your own oysters for $1 discount per shell. They provide the gloves and knife. We opted to relax and forego the savings. We eat oysters a lot, as we often take our kids to happy hour in the city and share a few dozen. So when I say these were the BEST and MOST DELICIOUS oysters I can ever remember having, that’s saying a lot. 

We saw a few men bringing in fresh oysters while there. Since everything is fresh, the menu will change based on the season and availability. We ordered a sampler platter which had two each of six different oysters. We attempted to rank our favorites. And while we were able to describe different notes of each, it was difficult to call a winner. We also enjoyed a few cocktails…a blood orange margarita and an uber-refreshing mule.  Many guests also ordered grilled oysters, as they’re apparently a fan favorite. They are on our list for next visit.

The great news about oysters is that while they are beyond delicious, they’re not filling. So after you’ve enjoyed a dozen or two as an appetizer, you’re still ready for a meal. I’d recommend two options, which are in walking distance from Little Creek. They’re both outstanding and a real treat.

Noah’s
Situated along Front Street, we truly enjoyed the outdoor seating at Noah’s. And the food is fabulous! I watched so many dishes come out of the kitchen, and each one looked more amazing than the previous! We decided to share a few small plates and enjoyed Tuna Tartare, Fried Squash Blossoms (stuffed with goat cheese), and Filet Mignon Sliders. I recommend them all. You know I love my margaritas, and the Cucumber Margarita did not disappoint. For dessert, we shared Key Lime Pie and Cinnamon Sugar Beignets. I could have ordered seconds of both and not felt one ounce of guilt. Our server was fantastic and was spot on with her recommendations when we had difficulty making decisions.

The Frisky Oyster
The Frisky Oyster is not easy on the wallet, but if you can spring for it, it’s definitely a spot you should visit at least once. 

We actually didn’t eat at the Frisky Oyster on our wine tasting date. It was closed, and we were beyond thrilled to have an excuse to return. So three days later, on our actual anniversary, we did so with our kids. And they, too, are huge fans of this hot spot. We dined outside, but the inside is super sexy and moody, so don’t fret if outdoor seating isn’t available.

I’d read somewhere that the bartender was a genius, and whoever wrote that might be right. The Frisky Oyster might have the best cocktails on the North Fork. I love my tequila, so I had to try the Watermelon Cilantro Margarita and the Beaver Fever. Both were just what the doctor ordered. For appetizers, it was Little Ram Oysters on the Shell, Oysters Friskarella, and Tuna Spring Rolls. We also shared Crescent Farm Duck Breast and Tempura Soft Shell Crab. Kids shared the Frenched Chicken Breast. Dessert was sincerely divine with Key Lime Pie and Summer Berry Crumble. There wasn’t a crumb left.

ADDITIONAL SUGGESTIONS

We could not have asked for a more perfect day! Before you depart to plan your trip to the North Fork, I want to leave you with a few other spots that remain on our list. We didn’t get to them (that’s my disclaimer), but we’re looking forward to a future trip to experience more. They were recommended by people we trust, so I’m confident you’ll enjoy them if they make your itinerary.

Vineyards (not visited)
Croteaux Vineyards (all rosé)
Jamesport Vineyards
RG | NY
Sparkling Pointe

The town of Greenport

Restaurants (not visited)
American Beech (restaurant, bar, lounge bar)
Anker
Duryea’s Orient Point
The Halyard

Indoor Cocktail Bar (& Pizza)
Brix & Rye

Overnight Stay (have not actually spent the night)
Farmhouse Inn at Rosehill Vineyards
Jamesport Vineyards
The Menhaden
Sound View Greenport

Tuna Spring Rolls from The Frisky Oyster

The only regret we have is not exploring the North Fork sooner and more often. We will definitely return again and again, and my hope is that this North Fork travel guide will grow. If you have been or plan to go in the future, please drop me a line and let me know your favorite places. Enjoy!

xoxo,
Jennifer

SUMMER ESSENTIALS & THE WHITE CLUTCH

Today I’m sharing four looks for the summer season, using many pieces over and over again. I love versatility. So don’t stop reading until you get to the end. But to start, I’m going to focus on this amazing clutch I’m sporting. Do you remember when it was acceptable to wear white only between Memorial Day and Labor Day? Yes, I’m that old. I think I’ve told you before that in the late 90s and early 2000s, I had an administrative assistant who broke out the white pumps sharply on Memorial Day and stashed them away the day before Labor Day, never again to be seen until the following Memorial Day. She was old school. About more than just white shoes. I adored her.

Although those rules are a thing of the past, I think white accessories really do make summer official. As a teenager, I remember coveting a white shoulder strap Liz Claiborne bag. I finally saved enough money to make it mine, and I sported it almost every day. Back then I had one “purse” for the season.

Sometimes the more things change, the more they stay the same. Because I was just gifted this buttery soft white Huguette Clutch from a new-to-me company called J. Margaret Weaver, and I’ve found myself carrying it everywhere. (Keep reading and I’ll show you!) It’s the perfect size for a “Goldilocks” like me who has issues committing to bags because they’re always too big or can’t hold enough. This one is just right, holding all of my essentials, and it stays closed and is easy to open with its magnetic gold clasp across the top. The color is the perfect shade of white…slightly off white…so it’s not sterile or stark.

For all of you who love supporting entrepreneurial women, you’ll love the fact that J. Margaret Weaver is woman-owned and based right here in the good ‘ole US of A. Kansas City to be exact. The goods are made in small batches and sourced from small businesses that produce their merchandise under ethical guidelines.

Beyond handbags, the company sells clothing, scarves, and jewelry. Many fabrics are machine washable, and the sizes are truly inclusive. So, if you love the clutch as much as I do and/or find anything else on the site that tickles your fancy, please use code JENNIFER20 for 20% off site-wide! That makes this leather clutch a budget-friendly $60. They make great gifts for bridal parties because they can be printed with a custom monogram for a small uncharge. And if you want another color to go with other outfits, the clutch is also available in black and navy.

This blog post is the gift that keeps on giving. Here are four looks for sporting this white clutch. And you’ll notice that the components of each look are wardrobe staples that you can wear again and again. You know I love versatility and getting the biggest bang for your buck, so….you’re welcome! Shop all items at the end by clicking on each image in the “Shop the Post” section

4 WAYS TO STYLE THE WHITE CLUTCH

For the Girls’ Night Out…

The Day to Night Look…

For the Sarah Fllnt cognac-colored “gladiator” Grear Sandals below, use code SARAHFLINT-BAJENNIFER to save $50 off your order.

City Chic in the City Streets…

The Romantic Date Night…

SHOP THE POST

Again, for the Sarah Flint heeled and gladiator sandals, use code SARAHFLINT-BAJENNIFER for $50 off your order.

For the items below, there are discount codes. Again, for 20% off the clutch (and everything from J. Margaret Weaver), use code JENNIFER20 for 20% off. For the pearl pendant, gold cluster bracelet, and earrings, use BLG15 for 15% off. And for the custom birthstone and letter necklaces, use BEAUTYLOVEANDGRUB for 15% off. Click on the images below to shop.

My hope, as always, is that this post helps you look and feel your best with affordable classics that you can mix and match to love every day.

xo,
Jennifer

FAVORITE ZARA SUMMER SALE FINDS

Funny story. I promise it’s short. On Tuesday I went into Zara at Hudson Yards, and the store was so disorganized. Nothing was grouped together. Rather everything was mixed up…seven different dresses hanging on the same rack. While at the register, I asked the cashier if they were changing up the store set. Then I thought about it more and asked if they were gearing up for their summer sale. She sort of shrugged and donned a peculiar smile and said, “Yes, we are changing the store around.” I thought she knew the sale was coming and was sworn to secrecy. But can a Zara sale really be kept a secret for long? Lo and behold, I got an alert from my app that the sale was beginning at 8 pm.

The Zara sale comes once a season. And the great news is that it’s a clearance but not a clearance. What I mean is that the items are still “in season” and you have several months to continue wearing them. And unlike some clearance sales, you can still return the items per their regular return policy if they don’t work out.

So here are my favorites. Simply click on the images to shop. There are so many great things available!

BLUE & WHITE SWIMSUITS

To me, nothing says summer like blue and white. Maybe it’s because blue is the color of the sea, the color of a cloudless, sun-filled sky, and just a soft, easy, stress-free mood. I have a thing for blue and white stripes. Every summer I buy at least one dress and one swimsuit. It’s not intentional. It just happens. I am drawn to it.

This is a very short post today. I’m coming off of a weekend where I didn’t get much done. The weather was beautiful, and it was Father’s Day. We spent time by the pool, and I wore this favorite new suit of mine. At the time of this post, stock is limited. Check back, as restocks often happen. But I wanted to share a few other very similar and beautiful options that I’d be just as happy to own. Simply click on the images below to shop

The “coverup” I’m wearing is the Grayson Hero Button-Up Washed Cotton in white. Talk about versatility. Get $25 off your order with code JENNIFERMEJIA at checkout.

Wishing you an amazing pool or beach day sometime very soon.

BEACH DAY ESSENTIALS

I haven’t really felt like going to the beach around here yet. But my sense is that will soon change. The boys are less than two weeks away from the end of the school year, and baseball just ended for the season, so I’m no longer landlocked in the concrete jungle on weekends. The weather in the Hamptons looks somewhat promising for next weekend, so I’m trying to take inventory on all of my beach day essentials.

I’m going to keep it real here and admit that swimsuit shopping has been a struggle this year. I keep wondering if there is some crash course in fitness, kind of the like the way I used to cram for exams in college. If you have any tips, please feel free to message me. ;-) Unfortunately, Photoshop only works on the screen and not in real life, so what’s the point?

I don’t really like to take a ton of things to the beach. Somehow my children keep acquiring new toys, as if carting an additional two human beings wasn’t enough added weight. So whenever they are in tow (basically always), I have to keep my own baggage to the essentials. In case you’re in the same boat, I thought I’d share a few of them. So here goes…

Let’s begin with the things I can wear, which means I don’t have to carry them. A male friend of mine used to joke and say, “Cosmo tells me to wear black because it’s slimming.” Well, he and Cosmo were right. So if you’re not thrilled with your figure at the moment, a solid black suit can be a safe bet. The scalloped edge swimsuit I’m wearing is a bargain, but very few sizes remain. But always check back as restocks do happen. It’s a knock-off of this designer swimsuit, which I’ve tried and might be worth the splurge if I was in better shape right now. The designer suit definitely stays on my toosh a lot better and is not as cheeky as the lower-priced version. Here is a similar version that might be a nice happy medium between the two.

You might think you need something called a “swim coverup” to go over your suit. Well, I’m here to tell you that you don’t. I’m all about versatility and making things work at least double duty, so I absolutely love using my Grayson Hero Button-Up as a coverup. The length is amazing, and the tissue cotton keeps me covered without making me sweat. Use code JENNIFERMEJIA at checkout for $25 off your order.

A hat is a necessity to protect our faces from sun damage. I’ve had the one I’m wearing for a few years now. A larger option is here. A packable option is here.

Sunglasses are a must to avoid squinting and encouraging more crow’s feet. I love this Hollywood glam pair that comes in both the black I’m wearing and in a tortoise frame.

As for jewelry, I like to keep it simple. I’m wearing my necklaces from Haverhill Collection that I rarely take off. I don't have to because they are real 14K gold and gemstones. These necklaces have special meaning to me. I’m wearing a 15” 5-Birthstone Necklace and a 17” 1-Letter 2-Birthstone Necklace. Use code BEAUTYLOVEANDGRUB at checkout for 15% off your order.

To carry all of my stuff (and probably a lot for my kids), I love this stylish straw tote. If you’re like me and need more than a personal tote, you may want to check out this Cabana Tote. It’s a sustainable bag made of 23 recycled plastic water bottles, and its silicone coating keeps it and its content dry. Plus it contains all of the usual pockets and organization you’d expect from a beach tote or overnighter. To hold sunscreen, lip gloss, money, and keys in a secure place, I love this clear pouch in a perfect shade for the beach. It’s also great for travel because it’s TSA-approved to carry your liquids.

As for what goes inside the bag, the possibilities are endless. At a minimum, sunscreen is a must. I’ve done a lot of research, and I’ve narrowed the face options down to three to keep in my bag. SuperGood’s Unseen Sunscreen is probably the hottest one right now, and that’s because it’s oil-free, hydrating, and dries matte, and clear. This one from Dr. Dennis Gross is wonderful for sensitive skin and leaves a dewy finish. And finally, Versed Guards Up has a slight peach tint and blends into all skin tones to even out discolorations. That’s important when most of us aren't wearing foundation to the beach but still want to look fresh. For the body (and face), try Neutrogena Ultra Sheer Dry Touch, as it rubs in clear and isn’t greasy or sticky.

For beach accessories, I’m recommending a few options when it comes to chairs, umbrellas, and cooler bags. You basically need to decide if you’re more of a form (style) over function person or value function above all else. It’s not that the stylish items don't also function well, but rather that others may function slightly better in some ways. Hopefully that makes sense. I’ve discovered a new (to me) company called Business & Pleasure Co. I’m loving a few things from their line like this striped beach umbrella. It has a UV- and water-resistant canopy, is trimmed with a fun cotton fringe, and comes with a matching canvas carrier bag to make traveling to the beach easier. If your priority is form, try this umbrella with a sand anchor and tilt mechanism. It gets amazing reviews from Amazon and comes with a 60-day guarantee. You’ll probably have at least one windy day in a two-month period to put it to the test.

To comfortably lounge on the beach, you’ll need a chair. This block print beauty will go nicely with the striped beach umbrella from Business & Pleasure Co. It has a large zippered back pocket to store important items, padded backpack straps to carry it to and from the beach, is made of mold-, UV-, and water-resistant umbrella canvas, and reclines to three positions. Another option is this chair that has five reclining positions, an insulated cup holder, a bottle opener (my nephew always needs one), a mesh pouch for storing keys, a towel bar, and of course backpack straps (I won’t buy a chair without these).

You’ll need to dry off when you get out of the water, or perhaps you prefer to lie on the sand. This extra large towel measuring 35” x 75” is thick, super absorbent, and has 630 grams per square meter (GSM, which is a measurement like thread count in sheets…the higher the better).

And finally, once you get everything to the beach, you’ll want to relax (if you don’t have young kids) and enjoy a beverage. Business & Pleasure Co. makes this darling cooler tote bag that holds 16 cans plus ice. When not in use for the beach, you could easily use it as a chic weekender bag. You might also know the name Yeti, but for a real cooler in the same class, I prefer RTIC. This 40-can cooler is a perfect color for the beach and is a fraction of the price of Yeti. Use that savings to actually fill the cooler. On that note, I’m loving the canned wine trend. One on my list to try this summer is Underwood Pinot Gris. While summer is almost synonymous with rosé, my favorite wine to sip on a hot summer day is a dry, crisp white.

Warm weather is here. I hope to stay. May your days at the beach be relaxing and chic. I’d be thrilled to know this guide helped.

xo,
Jennifer

P.S. Special thanks to my dear and talented friend, Traci Giles, for these fun photos.